Lucious Newsome

Some called him a good man, others a living saint and still others a disciple of Christ for the poor, but no one who ever met him will ever forget him.

Under the True Story tab, I am sharing a few stories about Lucious Newsom which have been passed on to me by men in my small Cursillo Group at Holy Spirit at Geist parish. Several of the men in the group had helped him in his ministry. It will be 12 years today that Lucious died at age 93. Lucious was one with the Lord and he exuded God’s love to everyone he met.

He reminds us, that the older we get, the more wisdom we gain and the closer we are to seeing Christ. Lucious touched thousands in the last 20 years of his life here in Indianapolis. Many of them have a story to tell.


Catholic Radio Indy Interview

The Podcast link below is a July 23, 2020 interview on Catholic Radio Indy Faith in Action program, with Brigid Ayers and Jim Ganley, discussing my book "On My Way."

If you want to listen to it click on:

Catholic Radio Podcast Interview of Clarence Gilles

As you listen to it, the occasional little beeps you hear is my pump telling me my blood sugar was going low during the recording.

The interview will also air on the local Catholic Radio Indy Station this week, August 10, Mon. @ Noon, August 12, Thursday @ 4pm, and August 15, Saturday @ Noon.

Have a blessed day. Clarence


The Mulligan

The Mulligan” story is being posted under, “True Stories,” on the website.

It is a fitting post because it reminds us that life is a journey. Like Bill, many of us are in the second half of our lives. Richard Rohr says everyone must struggle and wander through the first half before we discover the second half. Even most of the saints bounced around life before they had a conversion.

Maybe you have not yet felt God’s overwhelming love and presence in a Spiritual awakening. If you have had a conversion, you are in the process of becoming a mature Christian to mentor others. When you share your story, you encourage others to say, “Yes Lord,” when He asks them to leave their comfort zone and put into the deep.

If you studied the Circles in the book “On My Way,” you should be able to visualize and follow Bill’s progress toward heaven. I, like Bill, believe we do get a mulligan in this life as He has more for us to do for Him here on earth before He takes us home.


IT'S NOT WHAT YOU GATHER, BUT WHAT YOU SCATTER

This has been around many, many times, but especially at these uncertain times it is enjoyable to have a story like this one to read.   This is not my story, but every time I read this a tear comes to my eye.

IT'S NOT WHAT YOU GATHER, BUT WHAT YOU SCATTER

I was at the corner grocery store buying some early potatoes... I noticed a small boy, delicate of bone and feature, ragged but clean, hungrily apprising a basket of freshly picked green peas.

I paid for my potatoes but was also drawn to the display of fresh green peas. I am a pushover for creamed peas and new potatoes. 

Pondering the peas, I couldn't help overhearing the conversation between Mr. Miller (the store owner) and the ragged boy next to me. 

'Hello Barry, how are you today?' 

'H'lo, Mr. Miller. Fine, thank ya. Jus' admirin' them peas. They sure look good' 

'They are good, Barry. How's your Ma?'    'Fine. Gittin' stronger alla' time.'    'Good. Anything I can help you with?'    'No, Sir. Jus' admirin' them peas.'    'Would you like to take some home?' asked Mr. Miller. 

'No, Sir. Got nuthin' to pay for 'em with.'

'Well, what have you to trade me for some of those peas?'

'All I got's my prize marble here.' 

'Is that right? Let me see it', said Miller. 

'Here 'tis. She's a dandy.' 

'I can see that. Hmm mmm, only thing is this one is blue and I sort of go for red. Do you have a red one like this at home?' the store owner asked. 

'Not zackley but almost.'

'Tell you what. Take this sack of peas home with you and next trip this way let me look at that red marble'. Mr. Miller told the boy.

'Sure will. Thanks Mr. Miller.'

Mrs. Miller, who had been standing nearby, came over to help me. 

With a smile she said, 'There are two other boys like him in our community, all three are in very poor circumstances. Jim just loves to bargain with them for peas, apples, tomatoes, or whatever. 

When they come back with their red marbles, and they always do, he decides he doesn't like red after all and he sends them home with a bag of produce for a green marble or an orange one, when they come on their next trip to the store.' 

I left the store smiling to myself, impressed with this man. A short time later I moved to Colorado, but I never forgot the story of this man, the boys, and their bartering for marbles. 

Several years went by, each more rapid than the previous one.  Just recently I had occasion to visit some old friends in that Idaho community and while I was there learned that Mr. Miller had died. They were having his visitation that evening and knowing my friends wanted to go, I agreed to accompany them. Upon arrival at the mortuary we fell into line to meet the relatives of the deceased and to offer whatever words of comfort we could. 

Ahead of us in line were three young men. One was in an army uniform and the other two wore nice haircuts, dark suits and white shirts...all very professional looking. They approached Mrs. Miller, standing composed and smiling by her husband's casket. 

Each of the young men hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, spoke briefly with her and moved on to the casket. Her misty light blue eyes followed them as, one by one; each young man stopped briefly and placed his own warm hand over the cold pale hand in the casket. Each left the mortuary awkwardly, wiping his eyes. 

Our turn came to meet Mrs. Miller. I told her who I was and reminded her of the story from those many years ago and what she had told me about her husband's bartering for marbles. With her eyes glistening, she took my hand and led me to the casket. 

'Those three young men who just left were the boys I told you about.

They just told me how they appreciated the things Jim 'traded' them. Now, at last, when Jim could not change his mind about color or size....they came to pay their debt.' 

'We've never had a great deal of the wealth of this world,' she confided, 'but right now, Jim would consider himself the richest man in Idaho ..' 

With loving gentleness she lifted the lifeless fingers of her deceased husband. Resting underneath were three exquisitely shined red marbles. 

The Moral:  We will not be remembered by our words, but by our kind deeds. Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath.

Today I wish you a day of ordinary miracles ~ A fresh pot of coffee you didn't make yourself.. 

An unexpected phone call from an old friend.... Green stoplights on your way to work.... 

The fastest line at the grocery store.... 

A good sing-along song on the radio.. 

The Confession

This story is about the experience of confession while on a pilgrimage to Israel. It was memorable not only because of the location, but the insight received on God’s appreciation of my efforts to seek his help.

Confession is always a tricky subject, but it can be a positive experience, when you speak with the Lord about your weakness whether through a confessor or in private prayer. A weight is lifted and peace follows.

I think the Lord brought this story to mind to convey how important it is to Him to bring our weaknesses to Him for forgiveness. It is humbling because we face the fact that we confess the same sins over and over, only to finally realize we need some Spiritual help to overcome our human weaknesses. He in turn gives us the grace, love and strength to come into a closer relationship with Him.

Today’s blog post is to introduce The Confession story. It is newly posted on the On My Way website under the True Stories tab.

Clarence

Spread the Good News

You are here on earth at this time for a reason!

We are asked to go out and spread the good news, to evangelize and “make disciples of all men.” You have an opportunity to do it from the comfort of your home. If you like the On My Way website (www.onmywaytoheaven.net) or Thoughts and God Moments on Facebook, please share the site.

What I suggest is that you mention the site to others and note the story that you liked the best. If they would like to receive email notifications of new blog posts including when a new story is added, they can subscribe at the bottom of any of the website pages. If they want you to subscribe for them, just go to the website and fill in their name and email address for them in the “Subscribe: Thoughts & God Moments” form.

Romans 10:15

And how can anyone preach unless they are sent? As it is written: "How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news!"

The Good Man

The good man story will take you back to another time, a much simpler time. It was a time when the church was at the heart of a small community. Today the small town churches and ethnic communities are going away. Instead of many small congregations, we have mega churches. It is happening in all denominations.

Most times when we go to someone’s funeral, we share and celebrate a person’s life on earth. While we do not truly know a person’s heart or relationship with God, we have an idea by noting how they lived their lives. We always hope for the best for the soul, and our consolation comes in this bible verse.

John: 10-14

I am the good shepherd; I know my own and my own know me.

This good man worshiped God by going to church and listening to the pastor. Today we, the laity, are needed to tell others about how God has shown His face in our lives. As in this story, when the end finally comes, perhaps there will be a special sign. The question is, will we share it to strengthen and lead others to a stronger belief in Christ or are we going to keep it to ourselves.

Today’s blog post is to introduce The Good Man story. It is newly posted on the On My Way website under the New Life tab.

Consolation in Memories

God Is always with us, watching over us and waiting for us to include him in our lives.  Often when we lose a loved one, He awakens us in unexpected ways to the fact that He was there with us all along.

Mostly we tuck these experiences away in our hearts.  That’s what I did and now I am sharing it with others to witness to His presence in our lives and give hope to those who believe in Him.

Today’s blog post is to introduce the Consolation in Memories story.  It is newly posted on the website under the New Life Stories tab.

The Unknown Saints

Today’s post on mother’s day is to introduce The Unknown Saints story. It is on the website under the New Life stories tab.

There are a lot of unknown saints. Mother Theresa is a well known saint for good reason, but in one of her sayings she alludes to lesser saints who go unnoticed. She says, “The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do it anyway.” It is forgotten because it is taken for granted. The unknown saints may not appear to be any holier than anyone else. Their saintliness comes in the form of service and caring for those they love and loving all they meet. They put others before self, without any recognition for it, except by God who knows everyone’s heart and motives.

Adding "The Bus" in True Stories

This may be of interest to those of you who have thought of purchasing the book, On My Way, for a friend or family member.  Someone bought seven books for his friends and wanted me to write a note in each of them.  He gave me a two sentence description of where he thought each person was on their journey.  One book was to go to someone whose focus may not have been on Christ or his faith at all.  The note to the person struggling with his faith was the most difficult.  It was hard to decide how to approach the subject.  Offering the book, On My Way, helps to open the door, but in the end people focus on their faith only if they have the will and desire to do so.  I asked the Lord for help and as usual God responded on a grand scale.  I got more than what I asked for.  Not only did he provide the bus analogy, but He also had me think about ideals and destiny, both of which had been on my mind for quite a while.  It was at this time that He gave me the idea of the website and how destiny could be a key part of the website.  Go to The Bus under the True Story tab, and also take a look at Your Destiny

“On My Way” Website - Now Live

How incredible God is! At the beginning of March the Lord was prompting me to start a website. I knew nothing about websites. It took four of us to get this done during the COVID-19 crisis. The Holy Spirit and myself for content, Vi, my wife as editor, and Bill McKinney the webmaster. None of us knew anything about designing a website a few weeks ago, but His Spirit was our guide in choosing a platform and inspiring content. Here is a detailed timeline of the website development:

March 7 - Registered a domain name on Go Daddy and could not make heads or tails about designing a website with their tutorial. Talked to my niece and she said, her dad, my brother had designed one for his rental property.

March 8 - My brother called and said he designed one 9 years ago on a platform that did require some programming knowledge and sent me a link to a site that evaluates website platforms.

March 14 - Picked Squarespace even though I had no clue on programming. I had to register a domain name with them but could not use the one I just bought from Go Daddy. I picked the same name but with .net instead of .com (OnMyWayToHeaven.net).

March 23 - After studying for a week I had 8 questions for Squarespace and they sent me to 8 different website locations?????? Sent out an appeal for help to my neighborhood. 1st response one word, "No." 2nd response, “Yes,” BUT in Arizona until COVID-19 ends.

March 24 - Called an 81 year old friend, who had added memory to my PC in January, to see if he knew anyone who could help.

March 25 - He looked at the Squarespace platform and said he could probably figure it out. I worked on content, he worked on website design.

April 15 - Went live with website (three weeks from the time we started work to site launch).

If you are visiting the site for the first time, you might start with the True Stories page. More stories will be added in the future.

I agonized over the Your Destiny page because of the depth of understanding needed from the Holy Spirit. Take your time here. The Holy Spirit will speak directly to you. When you thirst for inspiration and spiritual understanding come back to read Your Destiny again.

When returning to the site go to the Blog page. There will be periodic blog postings and site updates sent to subscriber emails.

What is on the site is not in the book “On My Way” but they complement each other. The book inspired this site and it is designed to help you on your road to heaven. The questions you ask yourself after each chapter in the book allows the Holy Spirit to whisper what He wants to tell you each time you read it. HE was the “Ghost” writer.

If you want to drop me a note, my e-mail is: onmywaytoheaven19@gmail.com. There is a link on the website to my email address.

May God bless you,

Clarence Gilles

Evangelization

You cannot evangelize others without evangelizing yourself in the process. The Holy Spirit creates the opportunity for you to minister to or help someone. To do that He has already inspired you to be the one to do it and enables you to provide what the other person needs. He uplifts everyone involved. What a blessing!!

NEW - "The Vision” Story

Today “THE VISION” story was added under the NEW LIFE tab on the website.

Here is the background to the story:

I was to give an hour long talk on my book, On My Way, at Our Lady of the Holy Spirit Center in Norwood, Ohio.  About 80 people came to the talk.  At the end I mentioned that I would be back in March for the spring library book discussion.  In the closing remarks I also said I had some books for sale, if anyone was interested. The very first person in line was Rose, who was so excited to tell me her story.  Her story was very interesting, but I noticed many people were still in the line to buy books.  I asked if she could come to the library discussion in March and she said she would.  On the way out I stopped at the book store to give them three books and drop another off at the library.

On the third Saturday in March, I arrived at 12:45 for the 1-3 o’clock book discussion.  Gina, the librarian, had told me it would a different and smaller group. At 1:00 the group was definitely smaller, 0 people.

Gina said it was not unusual for people to trickle in.  Skeptical, I went to the book store to see if anyone had purchased my books.  While looking for the books I saw a couple in the store and asked if they might want to come to my talk.  No, they had other plans.  I went to the clerk to see if she had an idea in which aisle my books might be.  I told her they had colorful circles with a red bull’s eye on the front cover. Then I saw all three books were right below the counter.  It was then that I noticed a middle aged man behind me.  I turned and asked if he would like to come to my talk on the book.  He asked when it was, and I told him in just a few minutes in the library.  He asked how long the talk was. About 2 hours with discussion time I said.  He said he would come but couldn’t stay more than ½ hour.  I told him he could leave whenever he wanted.

When I went back to the library, three maintenance men were replacing fluorescent light bulbs. Naturally I invited them to the talk.  The maintenance manager said they had a lot to do as the two volunteers with him only come in on Saturday.  However, they would take the ladders down and come for a few minutes.

Three others had trickled in while I was in the bookstore.  One was a nun who had been at my previous talk and lived at the center.  Another was an author, who had written a book about his own conversion and the third was Rose.  The gentleman from the bookstore came and Gina the librarian along with the maintenance men, we now had eight.  Christ said, “When two or more are gathered in my name, there I am also,” and He was.  All eight stayed for the entire talk and discussion.

My Morning Song Today

Woke up thinking what Christ is saying to us today and then the song Lean on Me came to mind by Bill Withers:

Sometimes in our lives we all have pain
We all have sorrow
But if we are wise
We know that there's always tomorrow

Lean on me, when you're not strong
And I'll be your friend
I'll help you carry on
For it won't be long
'Til I'm gonna need
Somebody to lean on

Please swallow your pride
If I have things you need to borrow
For no one can fill those of your needs
That you won't let show

You just call on me brother, when you need a hand
We all need somebody to lean on
I just might have a problem that you'll understand
We all need somebody to lean on

Lean on me, when you're not strong
And I'll be your friend
I'll help you carry on
For it won't be long
'Til I'm gonna need
Somebody to lean on

You just call on me brother, when you need a hand
We all need somebody to lean on
I just might have a problem that you'll understand
We all need somebody to lean on

If there is a load you have to bear
That you can't carry
I'm right up the road
I'll share your load

If you just call me (call me)
If you need a friend (call me) call me uh huh(call me) if you need a friend (call me)
If you ever need a friend (call me)